Determining an appropriate gift amount for a Bar Mitzvah celebration often involves considering factors such as the giver’s relationship to the celebrant, local customs, and personal financial comfort. A symbolic monetary gift divisible by 18 is customary, representing “chai,” the Hebrew word for “life.” For example, $36, $54, or $72 are common gift amounts.
This tradition of giving monetary gifts provides the young person with financial resources as they transition into adulthood within the Jewish community. Historically, these gifts were often intended to support continued religious education or contribute to the celebrant’s future. Today, they may be used for various purposes, including savings, charitable donations, or personal purchases.